tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3302508300760857498.post4000393363784294193..comments2012-02-29T08:17:21.512-05:00Single Mama NYChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07598244426035959968noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3302508300760857498.post-69126558801827151782011-12-30T05:30:14.709-05:002011-12-30T05:30:14.709-05:00I loved this post! <br /><br />I have two young boys, soon to be 7 &amp;5, and we deal with this very issue. Time spent with their dad&#39;s is a weekend long play date, while at my house it is much more structured and enjoyable in different aspects. It&#39;s difficult for my sons to understand that the behavior they witness at their fathers isn&#39;t always acceptable or alright. Their father is, in many ways, unforntunetly a big brother to them, so they love him to death and I have a hard time trying to relay my message as I always look like the wet blanket. <br /><br />Let me know if you find anyway to help the transitions. I am hoping with repetition, and continuing to be the example of my home they&#39;ll learn as they continue to grow. <br /><br />Thanks for this post!<br /><br />-Paige <br />@PaigeHurtado<br />http://paigehurtado.blogspot.comPaige Hurtadohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14855962891635125109noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3302508300760857498.post-33602101650058048542011-12-09T00:13:46.009-05:002011-12-09T00:13:46.009-05:00Thank you for this post. Please keep writing on this topic. Love your blog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3302508300760857498.post-35366411783284437152011-11-28T18:32:21.215-05:002011-11-28T18:32:21.215-05:00I love this post! You really make me think. Right now my girl is just 2 and so she doesn&#39;t stay overnight at her dad&#39;s, but I love your perspective of being loving and firm. Way to go, mama!<br /><br />P.S. I just discovered your blog and think it&#39;s fantastic! Keep up the good work!Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11685341307956586376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3302508300760857498.post-17919518021555361152011-11-22T15:02:23.503-05:002011-11-22T15:02:23.503-05:00This is really interesting. My boy is really young, so I haven&#39;t had to deal with this yet, but I suspect it&#39;ll come soon enough. We try to communicate daily, but it&#39;s hard to do everything the same, of course. (Otherwise we might still be married.) I&#39;m not looking forward to the day when he starts repeating his father&#39;s misogynistic crap. :(SingleishMomhttp://singleishmom.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com