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I LOVE what you wrote about not robbing Theo "...

2009-07-04T00:32:03.390-04:00

I LOVE what you wrote about not robbing Theo "of exactly the experiences he came to this earth to have." That is such an awesome perspective - you are so wise!!!

I can't imagine how hard that must be for you!...

2009-06-30T18:30:41.813-04:00

I can't imagine how hard that must be for you!

I have a hard time just leaving my boys with my parents or in-laws knowing that they will break my rules:(

My heart goes out to you!

Just know that experiencing things with the "...

2009-06-30T15:56:58.740-04:00

Just know that experiencing things with the "other" parent is exactly what helps a child balance and receive differing viewpoints. I think that's important, even THOUGH as moms we want to be THE influence because we feel we do it right, we do it better. And we probably do. But the differing viewpoints help them decipher differences, and help them learn to ask questions about these differences. This in turn gives us a chance to explain instead of just dictate. :) And it's his dad. Hopefully dad will be as excited about parenting Theo as you are. They do sometimes surprise us.

I forgot to tell you to come read what I wrote abo...

2009-06-30T14:51:20.670-04:00

I forgot to tell you to come read what I wrote about you.

It's not just Theo that is growing up; it'...

2009-06-30T13:00:48.276-04:00

It's not just Theo that is growing up; it's Mami too. You are doing a great job. He's got the foundation that you have created.